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Guide To
Online
Dating and
Matchmaking
Bless your beautiful hide
Wherever you may be
We haven’t met yet
But I’m willing to bet
That you’re the one for me!
And so goes the song from the Hollywood classic of
yesteryears, ÒSeven Brides for Seven BrothersÓ and
this song is precisely what online dating is. Online
dating is in, in, in! Gone are the days when
mothers used to escort their daughters to ball room
dances and help them choose partners from the
boys.
That was something that passed into oblivion with
the last century or even earlier than that. In those
days single people met at parties and other social
gatherings and had to choose partners judging just
by outer appearances, a very superficial choice
indeed! Nowadays thanks to the Internet, the
outward appearance has become the last criterion
for selection.
Why You Need To Know More...
But wait! Online dating is not all fun and games
and there are a lot of things that a person has to
know about online dating before one gets into the
intricacies of it. Online dating may seem to be the
simplest thing in the world but it is not. It should
be viewed in all earnestness or things could go hay
wire. Every game has its rules and unless you
know all the rules you just canÓt become a good
player and eventually a winner.
Tastes Differ
People! There are so many kinds around. Just look
around you, how many people you know look the
same? Sizes, builds, shapes, features, they are all
so different. And that is just about the external
appearances. And when it comes to character, it
becomes a very different story altogether. Take a
trip down memory lane, go back to your class
rooms and take a look around.
A class room is one place where we get to interact
with a lot of different people on a very close basis.
We get to rub shoulders and corners with very
different people and we get to know them on a one
to one basis. So how many of your class mates did
you genuinely like?
I donÓt mean like them as class mates but as
people. Was it easy to get along with all of them?
That is why we often end up with best friends or
clichs in class rooms.
We do not and do not have to like every body. The
tastes and interests of one person might match
with ours while the tastes and interests of another
person may be at complete logger heads with ours.
So when it comes to dating, it is very much the
same story. But over here there are some strings
attached. Unlike in a class room contact, most
people go on dates with a more impressive
purpose, and that is to find life mate. There are a
hundred and one things that should match before
two people decide to spend the rest of their lives
with each other.
Many people are of the opinion that they do not
need any help with dating. They may be right
because no body knows a personÓs tastes and likes
better than the person himself or herself.
Maybe most of us do not need any help in making
the right choice but isnÓt it good to get a few
pointers on the dating process as such, particularly
on online dating? It is with this objective that this
matter was prepared so that the thousands who
are now availing of
Internet dating may get the best out of it.
Reading This Book
I understand that most of my readers are very
busy people who do not have too much time to
spend reading an instruction manual. So I have
come up with something that requires just a single
glance to get the gist of it. At the most you might
require 10-15 fifteen minutes to run your eyes
along the entire length of this book.
ItÓs that simple. But at the same time, do not let
the simplicity mislead you. It is indeed a very
comprehensive work that aims to leave no stones
unturned.
You can either use this book as a general guideline
to streamline your match hunting venture, or you
can keep coming back to it to make sure of every
step before you actually put your foot forward. I
can promise you that if you use this book to guide
you, there is no need to fear at allÈyou just wonÓt
stumble.
What Makes Online Dating So
Different?
We, human beings have been in this world for so
many thousands of years. And since the beginning
people have been choosing partners.
Cultures across the world are very different and we
can come across so many different ways in which
people choose their life mates.
But the concept of finding a life partner with the
help of the Internet is a fairly recent concept when
compared with the history of man kind as such. Of
course the internet and computers have influenced
manÓs life so much that it is no surprise that in the
matters of finding a suitable partner too, the
Internet has made its presence felt.
Online dating is, to put is very simply or flatly,
finding a partner with the help of a machine
namely the computer via the Internet. That in itself
makes the idea and the process a very novel one
indeed; Hundreds of happy people across the globe
have been successful in finding suitable partners by
the means of online dating.
But to be frank with you, a lot of not-so-lucky
persons have been goofed and jilted by the same
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